@HelpMeSelfPub
After reading a great article  someone retweeted on Twitter, I felt compelled to pass it along, too. However, I noticed the original author’s name or Twitter account was not included in the tweet.

How did this happen?

Well, if the person tweeting isn't the original author, it can take a little extra time and effort to include the actual author's name, especially if you have to search Twitter for their account and then confirm it’s the right person. (Often times, several people have the same name.) And then, for certain blogs that host a multitude of writers,  you may even have to search the page to figure out who wrote the article. 

So, why  do I go to so much trouble to include the author, not just who tweeted it?

Two reasons.

One
. This is the author that wrote the cool article worthy of sharing. It’s just a good habit to credit that person and good Karma; as hopefully, I’ll get mentioned for the posts I write.

Two. Mentioning that author is a great way to introduce yourself to them and their potential followers. If I enjoyed their post, then there’s a higher likelihood of a quality connection between us.

So, after including everyone, what happens if my tweet is more than 140 characters long? Instead of dropping someone, I’d rather play with the title and shorten it as much as possible, or write a compelling comment. It may take a little extra effort, but it’s been worth it, as I’ve found many  people worth following (with a few returning the follow) or even initiating the connection, which has been exciting.

Note to authors: It’s helpful if you include your @Twitter name within your articles, so people can credit you, too.

How do you search for people to follow? Do you focus on quantity or quality? I’d love to hear your thoughts and suggestions.

 

Andrea Bandle
Writer/Editor, Co-Founder
@HelpMeSelfPub
editor@helpmeselfpublish.com
916-600-0836

 
 
Katy Kitty out on a Limb
I know what you are thinking...my kitten?!  Yes, my kitten.  Five month old Katy is exploring the outside world with her brother Andy, and loving every minute of it!  Mom is never far away as we are surrounded by neighbors with dogs, and Katy is a climber.  Watching her explore, and climb trees reminds me of why I chose to Self Publish, and why I help others do the same.

Do it Because You Can ~ Katy discovered our 100 year old oak trees, and started her ascent immediately - almost as if she has a 'I climb because I can' attitude. The tree is there, so she must climb.  I wrote my book, so I must publish.  Gone are the days when I soothed my ego when rejected by a publisher or agent by saying, "I write because I have to, but that doesn't mean I have to publish."  Seeing her go farther up the tree reminds me of J.A. Konrath's blog bio, "There's a word for a writer who never gives up...published."  Katy sez ~ "There's a word for a kitten who never stops climbing trees...fed."

Do it Because it's Fun ~ I'm pretty sure Katy is having fun when she runs out on a branch that would be as wide as a balance beam for a human, because she certainly looks as if she is happy!  Writing is like that for me...I feel like I'm out on a limb, but loving the scenery, the exhilaration and the balance.  Publishing is even more so! Seeing my work online for anyone to buy and read (or download for free) makes me absolutely giddy, and I know the process of self publishing is leading me to that feeling! 

If You're Stuck, Take a Left, or Meow for Help ~ Katy invariably gets stuck out on a limb.  That has certainly happened to me, and you I'm guessing, if you have ever tried something new.  When she gets stuck, she either backs up and takes another branch, or she meow's for help.  I can't climb the tree and show her the way, nor can I educate her on which turn I would take next were I her.  I can't speak kitten, even though I try with my high-pitched kitten voice that my husband just loves (at least I think that is his 'I love that voice' face?!)  Just hearing my voice, encouraging her to find a way helps, I think.  I have some very dear people helping me, and I love reciprocating!

So remember, think like a kitten, and you will love writing and self publishing.  If you need to borrow Katy, just meow.

Mary Kathryn Johnson
Author ~ Entrepreneur ~ Mom

Everything MommyLoves
Say Bump and Take a Left
Mary's Blog

Katy's favorite place is on my printer, under the lamp keeping warm.  That keeps me warm, too.
 
 
Tweet as You Speak, Social Media Speak
A recent post from Stephanie Chandler on why she doesn’t send promotional blasts to her email list, sparked a realization:  To have successful online communications in the social media arena, we really need to use the same regard as  when talking to people in-person.

Sales Blasts. When chatting with a friend or relative, or even meeting someone new, would you consider starting every conversation with a sales pitch? Some people do. I’ve met them in the mall. Even if they don’t begin the conversation trying to sell me something, it’s pretty obvious where the conversation is headed after the “fake” one-liners that try to sound like genuine interest. Most people are turned off by this approach, but many forget it’s just as annoying to their social media followers to see a constant stream of messages selling a product or service.

Remaining Impersonal. Although it’s impossible to become chummy with everyone we meet online, the basic social media rules do suggest opening ourselves up now and then and revealing our personal lives, thoughts, fears, or challenges we’ve overcome. The online world is inherently impersonal, yet we all hunger for human connections and feeling like we’re not alone in our life experiences. Opening up seems easier one-on-one with our personal contacts, but we can also reap the benefits of sharing our humanity with our online contacts, too.

Engaging with Others. Putting yourself out there then leads to responding to others. You wouldn’t ignore someone when communicating in person; so if someone is reaching out to you online ~ or you feel someone has written something of interest to you ~ comment, reply, or send a personal message.  Social Media interaction benefits you as much as it does the receiver. As long as it’s genuine and isn’t communicated with an ulterior motive - like a sales pitch - your message will resonate with your audience.

Do you agree? Do you find success online by using similar communication styles as you do with people in-person? How is it different? We’d love to hear from you.



Andrea Bandle
Writer/Editor, Co-Founder
Help Me Self Publish
editor@helpmeselfpublish.com
916-600-0836